The Person Stopping You from Being all You can Be is You.

by Guillermo Vidal | Dec 3, 2018 | Aging Successfully, Leadership, Life, Life Lessons, Self Fulfillment, Spirituality, Uncategorized

I have tried every scheme known to humans on how to avoid taking responsibility for my life. All of my failures were somebody else’s fault, or they stacked the odds against me. My list was long on excuses and short on accountability.

It is no great mystery why I relied on this approach, blaming others and my circumstances removed any need for self-reflection and change. But this approach was very unsatisfying, for it never brought desired results. By not examining what internal changes I needed to make, I attracted the same situation repeatedly. This often led to the same betrayals and abandonment I got from others. The universe seemed to conspire with me to give me the people or circumstances I needed to blame for my failures.

Finally, after tiring of getting the same results, I decided I needed to make some internal changes if I was to improve the outcomes in my life.

You have the power

The people and experiences in your life helped shape your inner self concept. Whether negative or positive this self-view drives your thoughts and teaches you what it perceives to be your limits. From these limited…