Hi Tessa, I found your article to be very interesting and enlightening. I think your mindfulness comments apply to men as well. I discovered the benefits of mindfulness when I adopted daily meditation as my spiritual practice. The mindfulness I have come to understand insists that the answer to our challenges comes from within as we become more aware of true ourselves. I think men put too much faith on a pill and, as you stated, although this method has a record of sexual performance results, pills do nothing for the emotional connection to their partner. In the end, I believe a more fulfilling sexual experience includes satisfying performance, but I think joy and sexual arousal are still generated by the emotional connection between the two partners. Obviously pills can manufacture performance but can they create inner satisfaction and connection? I don’t think so.